External Validation is a Trap Door

Johannes Shangadi

One of the most dangerous places to anchor your motivation is in the applause of other people.

Recognition feels good, and there is nothing wrong with enjoying it. Promotions, compliments, awards and public acknowledgement all serve as reminders that our efforts are being noticed, and nothing lifts a person quite like knowing their work has been seen.

The trouble begins when the recognition stops being a pleasant by-product and becomes the reason we continue at all.

Applause is unpredictable by nature. Sometimes it never comes. Sometimes it arrives early in a career and then fades, or people simply grow accustomed to your standard of work and stop remarking on it. If recognition is the fuel that drives you, the question becomes unavoidable: what happens when the fuel runs out? For many people, the honest answer is that motivation disappears with it, because their commitment was resting on something they never controlled in the first place.

A more sustainable approach is to anchor your work closer to home. Take pride in doing good work because it reflects the standard you have set for yourself. Keep learning because competence has a value of its own, one that compounds quietly whether or not anyone comments on it. Help others because it aligns with the kind of person you are trying to become. Recognition may still come, and often does, but it arrives as a consequence of the work rather than its objective.

Many of us began worthwhile pursuits for imperfect reasons. Some studied for status, others chased titles, prestige or approval, and there is no shame in any of that. What matters is understanding that motivation can be redirected. The reason you started does not have to be the reason you continue.

So if you find yourself feeling unusually demotivated, it may be worth sitting with a difficult question: has the work truly lost its meaning, or has the applause simply grown quieter? Those are two very different problems, and only one of them is worth worrying about.

When purpose rests on validation, effort will always rise and fall with the crowd. When it rests on personal fulfilment and the quiet satisfaction of becoming better at what you do, the crowd matters far less than it once did. Applause encourages, but purpose is what carries you through the seasons when nobody is clapping.

– Johannes Shangadi is a Namibian legal professional and managing consultant at Strategic Corporate Advisory Namibia. He passionately writes on career growth, professional visibility and navigating competitive job markets.


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