Every now and then, we hear stories about people who have been cheating on their partners and we wonder, will it ever happen to us?
Imagine you are in a happy relationship right now and you notice that your partner has been getting calls from a specific name for quite some time. You ask who it is, but your partner denies any romantic relationship with this person.
But the feeling nags you a lot because your partner’s behaviour starts to change.
What exactly do you do if you are put in a position like this? Would you ignore the rumours or would you be more straight forward about it?
Riku Kauapirura said “I wouldn’t beat around the bush. I would ask straight up and also tell her why I think she is cheating. If she did cheat and I found out elsewhere by myself after she denied, she’ll just have to go for good. Not only will the relationship end, but I will forget her very existence “.
Naturally a person would feel hurt after they have been cheated on, because it is not a fun experience at all. It is seen as a betrayal of trust.
But Musa Kaseke had this to say about it: “Just smile and wave “.
Imms Namwandi, however, refused to take it lightly. “Confront the elephant in the room, because if you do not, it will mess on all your expensive things you got with all your hard earned money.
Meaning, if you do not confront and deal with that issue, it will ruin your humanity which you have built with your hard earned prayers and goodwill. Get rid of the parasite before it affects the whole body. Let them know that you do not tolerate intolerable situations. ”
Like the saying goes, “trust is like a paper. Once it’s crumpled, it can’t be perfect “.
“Never believe anything you hear until it has been officially denied, that’s what I believe, ” Gideon Ndara said. “In case one is cheating for real, just know that if they have done it once, they are more likely to do it again.
So there will be a day it will clearly be visible that even when you feel like checking in their phone, there’s concrete proof. Otherwise, your partner can cheat on you only when there’s a reason you give them to cheat on you and there’s no love when partners are not being faithful. I believe the only favour I can do for my partner is to remain faithful. ”
Many have attempted to deduce the reasons for cheating and there have been many. Falling out of love, getting back at their partners, desire for additional sexual encounters or searching for something that your partner lacks in someone else are only a few examples why people cheat. But what if you’re over thinking it and your partner constantly shows you that he/she loves you despite the doubts?
“I will make it a full time job to find out the truth, yes, ” OuVrou Shilongo explained. “I will go through his phone, see who he calls often, check his SMSes, put a camera up in his room and if possible, I will go in his dreams to see that girl. ” Indeed, it’s serious business!
“I will not check her phone, but I will just watch her steps until I catch her with time, ” Henok Pangeiko said, “because if she is doing it, it’s obvious she will get used to it and I have to catch her. ” This is reasonable, because the aim is to squash the doubts. “The truth will be revealed, ” Frieda Kondjila added. “If I suspect unfamiliar behaviour in him, then it’s proven that I will catch him red handed. No rush. ”
Be warned! Your partner is watching you!
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