Sexy, scantily-clad women slowly swinging from a pole. Men with six packs in police uniforms or firemen’s outfits dancing around. Money being pushed into waistbands.
We’ve all seen the depictions of strip clubs on TV. And while most men (and some women, I’m sure) wish Namibia was as progressive to have such adult entertainment, we – as of yet – are still strip club-less. But if, one day, a swanky spot opened up somewhere in the Land of the Brave, would you go? And more importantly, would you go with your significant other? We took to Facebook to find out.
That would be drama and fights waiting to happen and I am thankful we don’t have those in the Land of the Brave.
Yeah, of course. The way I know my girlfriend, I’m sure she’ll learn a few tricks so that next time I don’t even have to go to a strip club!
The sole reason for going to a strip club is for mere sexual fantasies and to have your inner needs filled without getting down and dirty in the act. If you go to a strip club, it does not necessarily mean that you are loose/a cheat. Sometimes all you need is to move from KFC to Chicken City just for the view. But then again, taking your significant other to such a place of high enticing pleasures will only cause problems. It might not be immediate but you won’t stop hearing “so jy dink nou aan Strawberry Muffinjina van daai plek, ne? Nou fight ons!” (So you’re thinking about Strawberry Muffinjina from that place? Now we’re going to fight!) We can’t do everything together. Same as I don’t want to accompany her and her friends for a ladies pamper session.
I wouldn’t because a man will always be a man so I wouldn’t let the other side of me be known, especially my weakness.
If ever you go with your significant other to the strip club, she will always ask you whether you miss such dances or other stuff when you are together. I personally won’t do it, period.
I won’t even tell her that I’m going to the strip club. However, if she is the one who insists that we should go, I will go.
A big no. It’s not acceptable to check out and flirt with other people when you are attached, especially not in front of your partner.
I have no problem with that. As long as he won’t let them give him a lap dance!
No, I won’t. It’s like you are asking me to go pick up a prostitute with my girlfriend, come on man.
If you already have someone in your life, why would you want to go to a strip club? I’m of the idea that strip clubs are for ‘pleasure-seeking’ people. So if you already have a bae, stay home and let The Bae give you what you were going to look for in a strip club. But if she won’t catch feelings when the strippers give you lap dances, why not go? And oh, you might wanna re-evaluate your relationship if she allows you to go to strip clubs.
