Caring for children during the festive season

As the festive season approaches, parents and guardians are presented with the joyful challenge of creating memorable experiences for their children.

Helena David, the national safeguarding coordinator at SOS Children’s Villages Namibia, recently shared practical insights on ensuring the well-being of children during the festive period, coinciding with the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence (GBV).

SOS Children’s Villages is a non-governmental organisation focused on supporting children without parental care and those at risk of losing parental care.

The Namibian earlier this year reported that the United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA) says Namibia recorded nearly 700 rape cases in 2022, with a disproportionate impact on women and girls.

UNFPA country representative Gift Malunga emphasised these concerns during the recent commemoration of World Population Day in the Hardap region.

Malunga highlighted the stark reality that, although women and girls constitute 51% of Namibia’s population, their desires are often overlooked due to pervasive gender inequality – especially among those aged 15 to 49.

The European Union (EU) and the UNFPA have committed over N$30 million to combat GBV in Namibia, during the signing ceremony and contribution agreement of the ‘Gender Equality/Combating Gender-Based Violence’ project in Windhoek last week.

Maintaining stability and routine emerges as a cornerstone of responsible caregiving during the holidays, David says.

She emphasises the significance of maintaining a routine for children, which reduces anxiety.

David encourages parents to be vigilant at all times.

This awareness is critical in preventing exposure to various forms of abuse that may arise during multiple festive gatherings.

“New challenges may arise during social gatherings and being aware of these situations is vital to prevent exposure to various forms of abuse,” she says.

Navigating financial pressures and managing children’s expectations are common challenges during the holiday season.

David advises open conversations about financial situations, fostering realistic expectations.

Parents are encouraged to prioritise self-care, engaging in activities that bring joy and relaxation.

By taking care of themselves, parents are better equipped to support their children emotionally during and after the festive period.

“Setting realistic expectations and teaching children the value of gratitude beyond material possessions is crucial. These conversations help alleviate stress and create a more meaningful holiday experience for everyone involved,” she says.

Recognising child abuse is imperative, and certain red flags demand attention.

These include withdrawal from typical activities, changes in behaviour or school performance, and signs of emotional imbalance, such as depression or anxiety.

“Early detection and intervention are crucial in safeguarding children against the lasting impact of abuse, allowing them the support needed to navigate and overcome these challenges.”

Specific signs differ based on the type of abuse.

Physical abuse may manifest as unexplained injuries, emotional abuse as social withdrawal or a decrease in school performance, sexual abuse through inappropriate behaviour or knowledge and neglect through poor growth or hygiene.

“Vigilance in observing these signs can be the key to providing timely assistance and protection to children facing abuse,” David says.

Community support plays a vital role in ensuring the well-being and protection of children, particularly during the holidays, she says.

She stresses the importance of engaging community leaders, elders, and local authorities in discussions about child protection, as well as reporting and responding mechanisms.

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