Madonna fires back in adoption row

NEW YORK – Pop diva Madonna accused the media on Wednesday of manipulation in a row over a Malawian toddler she is adopting, refuting comments from the boy’s father that he did not know he was giving up his son for good.

In an appearance on the US daytime talk show ‘Oprah’, Madonna said she was surprised by the controversy stirred up by her attempt to adopt 13-month-old David Banda and saddened by the media’s coverage of the row. She refuted comments from the father, Yohane Banda, who said on Sunday he didn’t realise he was giving up his son for good and would not have allowed the adoption if he had.”I believe that the press is manipulating this information out of him,” she said.”I do not believe that is true.I sat in that room, I looked into that man’s eyes.””They have asked him things, repeatedly, and they have put words in his mouth.”They have spun a story that is completely false,” she added.The queen of pop said she was disappointed by the media’s handling of the affair and warned that it could scare people away from adopting needy children in Malawi and other poverty-stricken African countries.”I understand that gossip and telling negative stories sells newspapers.”But I think for me, I’m disappointed, because it discourages other people from doing the same thing,” she said.”I feel like the media is doing a great disservice to all the orphans of Africa, period, not just Malawi, by turning it into such a negative thing.”Madonna was given interim custody of the toddler earlier this month after barely two weeks in the impoverished African country, and the baby flew to Britain several days later amid a media storm.”I didn’t realise that the adoption was causing any controversy until I came back,” she said.”There were a million film crews in the airport and press camped outside my door,” she added.The 48-year-old US singer, who had the boy flown out of Malawi last week to join her in London, has been roundly criticised in the southern African state and overseas over the adoption process.A coalition of Malawian rights groups is challenging the adoption, saying adoptive parents from overseas are required by law to live in the country for 18 months.They have also raised questions over Madonna’s credentials as a parent, recalling some steamy pop videos and the provocative public image that helped make her a household name.But Madonna called on her critics to go to Africa to see first hand the challenges the continent faces, and called for a shakeup in Malawi’s adoption laws.Nampa-AFPShe refuted comments from the father, Yohane Banda, who said on Sunday he didn’t realise he was giving up his son for good and would not have allowed the adoption if he had.”I believe that the press is manipulating this information out of him,” she said.”I do not believe that is true.I sat in that room, I looked into that man’s eyes.””They have asked him things, repeatedly, and they have put words in his mouth.”They have spun a story that is completely false,” she added.The queen of pop said she was disappointed by the media’s handling of the affair and warned that it could scare people away from adopting needy children in Malawi and other poverty-stricken African countries.”I understand that gossip and telling negative stories sells newspapers.”But I think for me, I’m disappointed, because it discourages other people from doing the same thing,” she said.”I feel like the media is doing a great disservice to all the orphans of Africa, period, not just Malawi, by turning it into such a negative thing.”Madonna was given interim custody of the toddler earlier this month after barely two weeks in the impoverished African country, and the baby flew to Britain several days later amid a media storm.”I didn’t realise that the adoption was causing any controversy until I came back,” she said.”There were a million film crews in the airport and press camped outside my door,” she added.The 48-year-old US singer, who had the boy flown out of Malawi last week to join her in London, has been roundly criticised in the southern African state and overseas over the adoption process.A coalition of Malawian rights groups is challenging the adoption, saying adoptive parents from overseas are required by law to live in the country for 18 months.They have also raised questions over Madonna’s credentials as a parent, recalling some steamy pop videos and the provocative public image that helped make her a household name.But Madonna called on her critics to go to Africa to see first hand the challenges the continent faces, and called for a shakeup in Malawi’s adoption laws.Nampa-AFP