This letter is written with special reference to "Prollius van Zyl,
who killed his wife Melinda van Zyl," (The Namibian, April
13,2004).
It is so disheartening to hear inexcusable statements such as "I
regret killing her".
Most of the killers, if not all, utter the same words all the
time.
It is very painful for family members to hear about such
regrettable experiences and I am sure for all responsible
citizens.
The point I am trying to make here is: Such people need to be
jailed but jailing them does not bring the person back.
What options are we left with when it comes to this Irreparable
acts? My view is we should attempt to intervene before such
killings happen.
I am sure the readers might be asking how this can be done? Yes
it is not an easy job but when well-planned and well-implemented it
might just have an impact in minimizing such killings, which are on
the increase now in our beautiful land.
The method I am about to introduce here is called 'Preventative
work'.
People are made to consciously think things through before
acting and weighting all the consequence of their actions.
I know most, if not all, the killings are done while these
people are drunk but, yes, even drinking can be included in
preventative work.
Preventative work needs well-trained people that go out as
outreaches to reach out to people and take them through the
processes of thinking about the pain of a killer and life after
killing etc.
The people who have honestly regretted their acts and have
suffered their loss and know the suffering they have caused for
themselves, can be used to reach out to others and share their
horrible experiences.
There are also those that think jail is a five-star hotel, so
that will also be a good platform to share their bad experience of
jail.
In such away we will have drunkards who are responsible.
The motto is "think a thousand times before you act" - there is
no sorry after killing.
I hope this article will invite as many peace lovers as possible
to discuss this national concern that we really need to act on.
Aids is already orphaning our children - let us act and prevent
deliberate orphaning.
Peace lover,
Bennita
It is so disheartening to hear inexcusable statements such as "I
regret killing her".Most of the killers, if not all, utter the same
words all the time.It is very painful for family members to hear
about such regrettable experiences and I am sure for all
responsible citizens.The point I am trying to make here is: Such
people need to be jailed but jailing them does not bring the person
back.What options are we left with when it comes to this
Irreparable acts? My view is we should attempt to intervene before
such killings happen.I am sure the readers might be asking how this
can be done? Yes it is not an easy job but when well-planned and
well-implemented it might just have an impact in minimizing such
killings, which are on the increase now in our beautiful land.The
method I am about to introduce here is called 'Preventative
work'.People are made to consciously think things through before
acting and weighting all the consequence of their actions.I know
most, if not all, the killings are done while these people are
drunk but, yes, even drinking can be included in preventative
work.Preventative work needs well-trained people that go out as
outreaches to reach out to people and take them through the
processes of thinking about the pain of a killer and life after
killing etc.The people who have honestly regretted their acts and
have suffered their loss and know the suffering they have caused
for themselves, can be used to reach out to others and share their
horrible experiences.There are also those that think jail is a
five-star hotel, so that will also be a good platform to share
their bad experience of jail.In such away we will have drunkards
who are responsible.The motto is "think a thousand times before you
act" - there is no sorry after killing.I hope this article will
invite as many peace lovers as possible to discuss this national
concern that we really need to act on.Aids is already orphaning our
children - let us act and prevent deliberate orphaning.Peace
lover,Bennita