02.04.2004

Marriage Problems Make Life Hell for Children

Dear Nation WE are two children, a brother and a sister.

One is eleven and one is nine.

Our parent's marriage is falling apart.

 

We are writing to complain about women's abuse in marriages by

the husbands and the divorce system.

 

I really don't think it's fair that my father can commit

adultery, and when my mother files for divorce, he doesn't want to

sign and she's stuck in a marriage with emotional and physical

abuse.

 

Please help us to change the rules of divorce so that if a women

wants to divorce and the man does not, she can get a divorce and

start a new life.

 

Most of these men are priests, teachers and respected men.

 

Women do this too.

 

My father brings his girlfriend into the house and the parent's

family and friends came and threatened us.

 

We are so scared of them.

 

We don't concentrate in school anymore because we are thinking

of our mommy.

 

We have asked the Women and Child Ministry in Windhoek for help,

but nothing happens.

 

We need help please.

 

What can be done about this?

 

Desperate children from Otjiwarongo.

 

Our parent's marriage is falling apart.We are writing to complain

about women's abuse in marriages by the husbands and the divorce

system.I really don't think it's fair that my father can commit

adultery, and when my mother files for divorce, he doesn't want to

sign and she's stuck in a marriage with emotional and physical

abuse.Please help us to change the rules of divorce so that if a

women wants to divorce and the man does not, she can get a divorce

and start a new life.Most of these men are priests, teachers and

respected men.Women do this too.My father brings his girlfriend

into the house and the parent's family and friends came and

threatened us.We are so scared of them.We don't concentrate in

school anymore because we are thinking of our mommy.We have asked

the Women and Child Ministry in Windhoek for help, but nothing

happens.We need help please.What can be done about this?Desperate

children from Otjiwarongo.