Monogamy Not About Romance

Elsewhere in the animal world, monogamy is definitely a minority taste. Only three percent of mammals are monogamous. Even among our closest relatives, the primates, only a quarter of the species form pair bonds. Moreover, the very fragility of the pair bond in human beings suggests that it is a behaviour we only adopted fairly recently in our evolutionary history. So when did we acquire it, and why?

There is a new explanation on the table. In a study published this week in the “Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences”, scientists argue that the main reason why human beings – more precisely, male human beings – became monogamous was to keep their babies from being killed by other men.

There are many species where an incoming male will kill a female’s offspring by a previous male in order to make room for his own. It’s especially common in mammals, where a female remains infertile while she is still producing milk for an existing baby. The new male is in a hurry to get on with fathering the bearers of his own genes, and if he kills her existing offspring she will become fertile again.

This may have been a particularly big problem in our own species, because human females may nurse a child for as long as two or three years. Infanticide is ugly, but unfortunately it makes sense as a male reproductive strategy. So it also makes sense for the father of the existing children to stick around and protect them from that fate.

This was the hypothesis of the scientists from University College London and Oxford, Manchester and Auckland Universities who published the article in “Proceedings”. “You do not get monogamy unless you already have infanticide, and you do not get a switch to paternal care (by males) if you don’t already have monogamy,” wrote Dr. Christopher Opie of UCL.

This flies in the face of the previously dominant explanation, which was based on the remarkably long childhood of human offspring. As our brains got bigger and the amount of cultural learning that had to be imparted to our children grew greater, the portion of their lives that they spent as dependent children grew longer and longer. Male help was therefore needed to raise them successfully.

Given the relatively short lifespans of hunter-gatherers, human children ended up as dependents for about a third of their lives. Most mammals depend on their mothers to feed, and protect them for less than a tenth of their lives, so human mothers had to cope with a far greater burden than that of most other species (including most other primate species).

In the conventional wisdom, that was why human beings became (imperfectly) monogamous. Couples that stayed together could provide far more support for the children than ones who had only a mother to care for them, and so more of the children of those unions would survive to pass on their genes to the next generation.

True enough, but why would the males commit in the first place? They were unlikely to be able make that kind of statistical calculation, and the normal male reproductive strategy in mammals is to impregnate as many females as possible and leave the mothers to raise them. Maybe they just stayed with the females to keep their children from being killed by other males.

So the researchers decided to test the rival hypotheses: did males commit to monogamy to prevent infanticide, or to ease the burden on females and thus improve the children’s survival chances in a different way? The cynics among you will already know the answer to this, but scientists actually have to prove things.

What they did was to take a family tree of 230 mammals, including most of the primate species, and put in the details of their mating behaviour, rates of infanticide, and amount of paternal care (i.e. monogamy). Then they simulated the evolution of those species over a period of 75 million years, running the programme millions of times to see how monogamy rose or fell for each species under different circumstances.

The conclusion was clear: among primates, monogamy was always preceded by one thing and one thing only: infanticide by males. Once you have monogamy, there is usually a rise in the male commitment to caring for the offspring as well, but infanticide has to come first. It’s not exactly romantic, but evolution isn’t.

So here we are, living in couples and raising our offspring together as if we were birds. (90 percent of birds are monogamous.) It doesn’t really matter how we got here, but it’s definitely a better place to be. In the end, we even figured out how to love each other.



*Gwynne Dyer is an independent journalist whose articles are published in 45 countries.